Thankful Day After Thursday

I’ve been MIA for the last couple of weeks and it’s time to start blogging again.

To get back into the swing of things, I’m doing a Thankful Thursday post a day late. And since I’m feeling out of practice, I’ll go with a top 10 list. If you decide you have better things to do than read what I’m thankful for, it’s okay.  I’ll understand. But you might miss something.

Just sayin’….

10. The faithful and talented lead teacher of our ESL class has been overwhelmed since her father’s death a few months ago and thought she might need to give up preparing lessons. But once she got if off of her chest, we made a plan and she doesn’t have to give it up and I don’t have to take on as many additional responsibilities as I feared. Woo hoo! for both of us!

9. While not blogging this past week, I made a trip to Mom and Dad’s. I got to see an aunt and uncle I don’t see often, as well as my sisters, nephews and nieces. I ate a lot. Visited a lot. Gained a couple of pounds. Loved the people I love.

8. My Mother-in-law lives a little less than half-way to my parents’ home, so I can break up my drive and spend the night with her and save my back. Really, really thankful!

7. Even though mom has dementia, she still knows all of us and still has her sense of humor. She lost her balance a little and kind of leaned into dad and said, “I fell for you!” and chuckled.

6. I found a stenographer’s pad that mom used to start writing a family history – mostly her memories. I took it out under the carport, lay it on the hood of the car and snapped a picture of each page. Can’t wait to read it.

5. So thankful for my amazing dad(Jim) and his loving care and devotion to mom! (But did he have to look grumpy in all the pictures?)

4. iPad + blog = time spent sitting with mom and looking through pictures of family.

3. Dad was looking for mom’s meatloaf recipe and I could say, “I have it on my blog, let me get it for you!”

2. Arrived home safely yesterday afternoon and had dinner with friends. Our mutual friend has moved out of state and we got together because she was in town. And – this sweet friend subscribes to my blog (and leaves me comments!) even though she doesn’t know anyone in my family. Thanks Danita! So thankful for these friends!

And the #1 thing I am thankful for:

One hour before the stroke of midnight on the eve of my 59th birthday, this blog reconnected me to someone I had met only once – 50 years ago. We are both amazed. If nothing else comes of this blog, it’s ok because someone missing from my life for fifty years has been found. I’m not ready to write about it yet. It will come in time.

 

 

Family Recipe Friday – Blueberry Salad

Continuing with recipes my mom contributed to the Friendship Circle Cookbook, Westminster Presbyterian Church, Clovis, NM, 1973

This jello recipe was/is a favorite – probably because it walks that fine line between salad and dessert. Mom served it as a salad, but it sure tasted like dessert!

The original recipe is for a blueberry salad made with blackberry jello. I’m not even sure if they make blackberry jello any more. I wanted to make this one Thanksgiving and couldn’t find blackberry jello, so I changed course and substituted strawberry jello for blackberry jello and substituted strawberries for the blueberries.

That’s the only way my kids have ever eaten this. At my son’s request, it became a staple for Thanksgiving or Christmas. And since kids don’t always like the nuts sprinkled on top, it has often been made half with and half without.

Blueberry Salad

2 (3-ounce) packages blackberry jello
2 cups boiling water
1 (15-ounce) can blueberries (drain and reserve)
1 (8 1/4-ounce) can crushed pineapple (drain and reserve)
1 (8-ounce) package cream cheese
1/2 cup sugar
1/2 pint sour cream
1/2 teaspoon vanilla
1/2 cup chopped nuts

Dissolve jello in boiling water. Drain blueberries and pineapple. Measure liquid and add water to make 1 cup and add to gelatin mixture. Stir in drained blueberries and pineapple. Pour into 2-quart flat pan, refrigerate until firm. Combine remaining ingredients except nuts; spread over top of congealed salad and sprinkle with nuts.

Family Recipe Friday – Jello: Salad or Dessert?

Continuing with recipes my mom contributed to the Friendship Circle Cookbook, Westminster Presbyterian Church, Clovis, NM, 1973  

In October of 2009, my friend Pam and I wandered around the Texas Book Festival on Saturday afternoon. We were getting pretty hot and decided to duck into the cooking tent, relishing the shade and hoping there might be samples.

Two young men, authors of the cookbook Baked Explorations, were the presenters. Matt Lewis and Renato Poliafito own Baked bakery in Brooklyn. The cookbook in question features regional desserts – the kind grandma took to the pot luck dinner at church or the family reunion – and then the authors put their spin on the recipes. I’m not sure exactly how they came by the recipes, but it sounded as though people submitted them while they traveled around the country searching for recipes.

The black and white cookies looked really good and I surely would have liked a sample. 🙁

In answering a question about the most unusual ingredient in a dessert recipe they had received, Matt and Renato looked at one another and started talking about jello recipes with celery and carrots in them and laughed.

It was obvious that these guys didn’t know the difference between a jello salad and a jello dessert.

So let me set the record straight:
If the jello has carrots or celery in it, what you have is salad.
If the jello sits on a crust (usually graham cracker), what you have is dessert.

Granted, some jello recipes walk a fine line between salad and dessert – what with the addition of Cool Whip or sweetened cream cheese.

When in doubt, use this rule of thumb: If your momma serves it with the meal, it’s salad. If you have to eat your vegetables first, it’s dessert.

And so these young men, uneducated in the particulars of J-E-L-L-O, included a recipe which they named Strawberry Jell-O Salad in their book of dessert recipes. And it is a dessert – the jello sits on a crust. Their unique spin on the recipe is a pretzel crust.

Seriously, I wanted to send these guys an email to set them straight, but three years later I have a blog, so I can just get it off my chest here. If you want to check out their jello salad dessert recipe, I found it on a couple of blogs. Here is one you might peruse. It sounds pretty tasty.

Now – about my momma’s jello recipes…

Jello salad was a regular item on our dinner menu. Tuna casserole was often accompanied by green peas and a lime jello and pear salad. Sometimes we had red jello with fruit cocktail. Or orange jello with mandarin oranges. The recipes Mom included in the cookbook had more ingredients or were prepared in layers, making them suitable for company.

I’ll share Mom’s version of a strawberry jello salad today and a couple of others in later posts.

Strawberry-Nut Salad

2 packages strawberry jello
1 cup boiling water
2 (10-ounce) packages frozen strawberries
1 (1-pound 4-ounce) can crushed pineapple
3 medium bananas, crushed
1 cup chopped walnuts
1 pint commercial sour cream

Combine jello and water. Fold in thawed strawberries with juice. Drain pineapple; add bananas and nuts. Put 1/2 strawberry mixture into dish as first layer. Refrigerate until firm. Spread top with sour cream. Spoon rest of jello mixture on top and refrigerate. Be sure to thaw berries before dissolving jello.

***  P.S.  If you put Mom’s Strawberry-Nut Salad on a crust, it would probably make a good dessert. Just be sure you call it dessert when you serve it.