Lost Items, Lapses of Memory, and Not Seeing What is Right in Front of Me

I found it.

I couldn’t find this picture when I was writing Little Rockers. My pictures are a mess.

Holding Cousin Cherie

And I found this picture of Grandma Abbie after I published Amana Rocking Chairs.

Abbie in her Amana rocker

It was taken when my grandmother had moved to an assisted living apartment. She usually smiled for pictures. I don’t think she was ready.

I’ve been corrected.

When I wrote about My Big Tall Italian Wedding Cake, I made at least one mistake. Dad(Jim) tells me that, although he was already in Odessa, TX at the time of my wedding, Mom and my sisters were still in Clovis, NM, which makes Mom even more of a super mom – driving my wedding cake and my three little sisters the six hours to Waco during the time she was preparing to sell our house and make a move. Dad drove in separately.

And on the subject of faulty memory…. I write many of my personal memories here. I believe them to be true. Maybe they’re not. You might want to read You Can’t Trust Memory! from the Heart and Craft of Life Writing blog.

I’ll just keep writing like I remember it. I hope people will comment or otherwise tell me their version of the story!!!

Here’s the picture to prove it.

The day Dad(Jerry) and I were in Bethel Cemetery, we couldn’t find the headstone for Ann Rutledge’s mother. Dad returned a few months later with cousins Alice and Adele and they found it right off the bat. Here’s a picture they took.

Grave of Ann Rutledge, Bethel Cemetery, Van Buren Co., Iowa

I know I looked on that row. How could I have missed the tall headstone with a GAR marker?

The sun was really bright that day.

Family Recipe Friday – Crunchy Ice Cream Pie

It’s been two or three weeks since I last shared one of mom’s recipes from this cookbook. Time to get back to it!

Seeing as it is November, it doesn’t seem the season for ice cream pie. But it was in the upper 80s yesterday and the forecast is for 87 today – so this is safely within ice-cream-eating-season in central Texas.

I usually prepare the recipe and post a picture of it, but I am just too full of sugar in the form of Halloween candy to do it.

Use your imagination….. pie plate with crunchy crust filled with ice cream and a few sprinkles of crunchiness on top. For fall, you might imagine butter pecan. Maybe go all out and swirl on some caramel sauce.

Crunchy Ice Cream Pie

1/4 pound butter or margarine
1 cup light brown sugar, packed
3 1/2- or 4-ounce package slivered almonds
1 1/2 cups coconut, packed
1 1/2 cups Rice Chex (measure before mashing)
1/2 gallon ice cream

Brown almonds in butter then mix all ingredients together except ice cream. Pack into pie tins, reserving some for top of pie. fill with softened ice cream and sprinkle remaining mixture on top. Freeze.

Family Recipe Friday – Lizzies

I gained a couple of pounds while I was at Mom and Dad’s house. Dad(Jim) had made an Italian Cream Cake and had taken two of his pies out of the freezer – a cherry and a pumpkin.

And there was a too-easy-to-open container of cookies on the kitchen counter that I helped empty. Since I ate so many of the darn things, I decided I’d share his cookie recipe today.

It seems like I usually see these at Christmas, but that didn’t deter Dad from baking them or me from eating them in October.

Lizzies

2 pounds candied cherries                           4 eggs
2 pounds mixed candied fruit                       3 tablespoons milk
1 pound raisins                                               1 cup bourbon
6 cups pecans                                                4 and 3/4 cups flour
1 stick butter or margarine                          1 teaspoon nutmeg
1 and 1/2 cups brown sugar                        1 teaspoon cinnamon
1 teaspoon allspice                                       1 teaspoon cloves
1/2 teaspoon salt                                           1/2 teaspoon soda

Dredge candied fruit, raisins and nuts in 3/4 cup flour; mix well. Cream butter and brown sugar. Add eggs, one at a time, and beat well. Add milk and bourbon. Mix 4 cups flour with spices and salt; mix dry ingredients into the creamed ingredients and add the fruit and nuts. Drop by teaspoon onto a greased cookie sheet and bake at 275 degrees for 20-25 minutes.

If you have read my blog from the beginning, or if you know my dad and his brother, you may have guessed that the Italian Cream Cake wasn’t just an after dinner dessert. I asked Dad how often his mom baked cakes and he said, “Oh, probably every couple of days.” 🙂